To Reside Dangerously_ A Assessment of Life-Enhancing Nervousness by Kirk Schneider
Life Enhancing Nervousness: Key to a Sane World by Kirk J. Schneider
BOOK REVIEW
Life Enhancing Nervousness: Key to a Sane World
by Kirk J. Schneider, PhD
College Professors Press, 2023; 170 pages
Reviewed by Awais Aftab, MD
In Life-Enhancing Nervousness, Kirk J. Schneider, PhD—a outstanding psychologist and a number one spokesperson for up to date existential-humanistic psychology—seeks to overturn our collective understanding of tension. In response to Schneider, although the up to date world is overwhelmed with unfavorable have an effect on, we don’t want much less nervousness; we’d like extra nervousness of a sure selection with the intention to dwell our greatest lives. The actual type of nervousness we’d like is termed as life-enhancing nervousness, and is contrasted with its reverse, life-destroying nervousness.
“What particularly do I imply by life-enhancing nervousness? I imply nervousness that allows us to dwell with and make the most effective of the depth and thriller of existence,” Schneider writes. By means of a compilation of each unique and beforehand printed essays, the guide examines this proposal and explores how nervousness is critical for us to realize a state of passionate engagement, moral attunement, and inventive enrichment.
Schneider’s understanding of tension is in stark distinction to our up to date attitudes. As an alternative of counting on the default technique of avoiding and suppressing nervousness, Schneider makes the case that life-enhancing nervousness is a crucial catalyst for embracing the profound depths and mysteries of existence. Our relationship with nervousness stands in for one thing deeper and existential. Are we prepared to immerse ourselves absolutely within the challenges and uncertainties of life to find the sense of awe that fuels creativity? All through the guide, Schneider elaborates on this concept, displaying its relevance to scientific work, arts and humanities, spirituality and faith, and societal and political challenges.
Schneider sees himself as working inside the existential custom and regularly acknowledges his mental debt to Rollo Could and his basic 1950 work, The That means of Nervousness. In some ways, Schneider is making an attempt to do what Could did for his era. Could supplied a distinction between nervousness characterised by neurotic distortion of actuality and nervousness that enables for artistic transformation of actuality, and this distinction can also be on the coronary heart of Schneider’s guide. Existential freedom and nervousness are unavoidably and inseparably linked. One can not exist with out the opposite.
The life-enhancing character of tension will not be one thing fastened or inbuilt; it emerges from a specific strategy of engagement. Schneider explains: “… the state of arousal generated by experiences of distinction. We name that arousal nervousness, and nervousness can solely turn into “life-enhancing” if we will bolster our skill to assimilate and accommodate it.” Life-enhancing nervousness, due to this fact, will not be one thing to be passively found, both in our peculiar lives or within the clinic, however one thing to be actively created.
Schneider is cautious to acknowledge that nervousness as a scientific downside will not be a mere matter. It’s typically debilitating, paralyzing, and requires remedy. He additionally doesn’t dismiss the worth of medicines or psychological interventions corresponding to cognitive behavioral remedy, and views them as important scientific instruments to be utilized appropriately. Schneider’s basic aim is that he doesn’t need us to grasp nervousness as a phenomenon restricted to the one dimension of discomfort and pathology. Schneider desires us to method nervousness—even in nervousness problems—as multidimensional, as possessing parts of pleasure and surprise which should be recovered at the same time as we search to alleviate it.
Maybe essentially the most memorable sections of the guide are these the place Schneider shares his private expertise with nervousness and the way his nervousness was reworked through the course of psychotherapy. Schneider’s struggles started after the traumatic lack of his youthful brother on the age of two and a half. This led his household to take him for remedy with a toddler psychoanalyst when he was 6 years outdated. Subsequently at age 22, Schneider skilled a daunting encounter with nervousness that threatened to shake his very grip on actuality:
“I recall some terrifying moments. For a lot of days and weeks, I used to be beset by panic and nervousness. It appeared as if the slightest affiliation to feeling helpless or being removed from dwelling and my girlfriend, or considering I is perhaps psychotic would set off a racing coronary heart, bodily shaking, and relentless emotions of doom. I additionally skilled perceptual distortions. For instance, I’d watch one in all my professors communicate however solely hear each particular person phrase he was saying, not the gist or primary concept he was conveying. This began to occur with different professors and even college students, which gave me a rising sense of unraveling that simply added to my anguish.
Thus was my initiation into the throes of panic and nervousness. I may simply have been recognized with an “nervousness dysfunction” accompanied by options of panic and distorted perceptions, however such a prognosis would hardly illuminate what I used to be grappling with. This was a coming-of-age battle and a deep gnawing reactivation of “unfinished enterprise” stemming from childhood fears. My therapist–analyst, Ann G., acknowledged the complexity of my illness. She conveyed a way of confidence that I used to be going by a type of “darkish night time of the soul,” and that there was extra, a lot extra, that I may uncover from this time. Simply this attitude alone was useful to me.” (p 26-27)
This psychological work enabled Schneider to seek out types of achievement in life that he couldn’t have imagined earlier than:
“… I realized one thing else that has bolstered me for over 40 years: methods to be bodily current, even in essentially the most dire moments of vulnerability. With this hard-won discovery, I’ve been capable of pursue romantic relationships that I hardly knew have been potential on the time of my breakdown. Foremost amongst these was what turned out to be a 40-year relationship with my spouse, Jurate.” (p 27)
Schneider describes how he steadily transitioned from a state of debilitating withdrawal to at least one characterised by curiosity, awe, and a brave engagement with life. He displays that at the moment his remedy would possible have been dominated by medicines and short-term symptom-focused therapies which might have fallen well-short of providing the existential engagement that he wanted.
“… in my expertise, if that change is basically organic or mental or behavioral, it isn’t as prone to endure. Alternatively, if the change is holistic, involving one’s complete bodily being, it’s prone to be life altering and profoundly ingrained.” (p 28)
The pervasive tendencies of contemporary society to eradicate nervousness goes past scientific interventions. We’re surrounded by countless alternatives for distraction, from all of the authorized and illicit substances we devour to all types of device-mediated communications: “I’ve the creeping feeling that we’re getting into a courageous new age the place statistical and mechanical manipulation is changing private discovery and threat.” (p 33)
Schneider desires us to rediscover the richness of face-to-face relationships, the immersive contact with nature, and our unfiltered capability to genuinely expertise the world. The recommendation he has to supply his readers is easy, however displays this amassed knowledge: take the time to replicate and to be current, develop a capability to decelerate, develop a capability to savor the second, domesticate a observe of meditation, and domesticate an openness to the thriller of life, and many others. That such targets are worthwhile is probably going evident to most, however what Schneider desires us to understand is that none of it’s potential with no brave and inventive engagement with nervousness.
“Not for the reason that warnings of such existential visionaries as Kierkegaard, Nietzsche, Sartre, and Tillich, or their successors Rank, Could, Becker, Laing, and Foucault have we wanted extra desperately to come back to grips with nervousness. For these thinkers, and in my very own very private expertise, nervousness is assuredly two-edged. It’s each an obstacle to and probably a sign of human flourishing; and its viability now could be pivotal. Why? As a result of, once more, not like every other time in historical past we’re ready to nearly eradicate nervousness.” (p 5)
In conclusion, Life Enhancing Nervousness is a thought-provoking guide that forces us to reexamine our assumptions in regards to the nature of tension and its relationship to psychological flourishing, and is a helpful work for clinicians and sufferers alike.
Dr Aftab is a psychiatrist in Cleveland, Ohio, and Medical Assistant Professor of Psychiatry at Case Western Reserve College. He’s a member of the editorial board of Psychiatric Occasions, led the interview collection “Conversations in Essential Psychiatry,” and blogs about conceptual and scientific points in psychiatry at Psychiatry on the Margins.